So I'm a teen mom blahhh anyway my daughter is three years old and her dad isn't around or anything I don't usually bring guys home cause I don't want to confuse her but I do date this guy for almost a four months and he's my laptop/phone/desktop background and he doesn't live near my we live in different states she's never met him and she pretty much called him daddy to me and it was so cute do you it'd be werid if I told him he already talks about adopting her when we get married ?
The only way he can adopt her is if the natural father gives up that right. But if you’re only having a thing with this guy over the internet, don’t you think it’s a bit premature to allow your daughter to call him daddy? I mean, that will very much confuse her. Tell her the truth always about her dad. She deserves that much. Also, try your hardest when you talk to your little girl about her dad, not to say anything bad about him. I know that’s hard, but you shouldn’t negatively effect her feelings towards him when she had nothing to do with your breakup. She should be happy to see him or talk about him, etc. It will make her a much more balanced and happy human being in this world, trust me. If her natural dad is a real bum, she’ll figure that out soon enough on her own!! But anyway, I got sidetracked!! lol I would not marry this internet guy until he visits you, and visits you often! Marrying a girl with a kid is a big responsibility and he should be eased into the situation naturally. I’m not saying he wouldn’t handle it like a man, but if you want to play your cards right, you will introduce him first slowly to yourself, and then when you’re satisfied he’s an upstanding guy, then introduce him to your daughter. But I would definitely not allow your little one to call this guy her dad…that’s wrong on so many levels, doll. <3